Men are from MARS. Women are from VENUS.

Firstly, really gonna thanks zk and glen for this book. I knew about this book long ago but i just couldn't make myself to read it. Even when i read it, i don't imply it. So what's the point of reading it?

Now..... it's all different! 
I took out the book and start reading it. Oh gosh, so true so true. Why didn't i used those approaches? Why did he reacted that way? We could have prevent all these from happening. All these came into my mind. Everything is too late to even have the slightest thought of it. So all i can do now, is to understand guys, is to understand myself that men are men and women are women. We are different and we have different needs. 

There are some points in the book which i think is really useful.
1)How to listen without getting angry?

2)How you may unknowingly turning off your partner?

3)How to give up changing a man?

4) WRITE LOVE LETTER/HEALING LETTER
By writing a letter, you tend to think. When you are thinking, you tend to put yourself in another partner's shoes. So i think this really helps in a relationship. 


Like now, i have stoned for an hour and i know whatever i wrote after this might or might not make sense. Regardless of horoscope, regardless of sex, regardless of religion, everyone have their different needs, it's hard to accommodate everyone. If you don't speak up, people might not know how are you feeling or what you want. So never assume everybody understand you, never assume everybody can put themselves in your shoes because everyone is different. So how about let's start from "me", trying to put myself in other's shoes first. With that, i might also control my emotions and etc. Always rmb to start from yourself. Think Think Think Think.

This photo that I have edited is really making me laugh. 

Laughing at myself for being blinded. But fret not, i am stronger now. 

Edel